Seek happiness with the advantages of your lover

/September 2021

A girl has only been married for half a year, and her pink face will soon lose weight, like a dying flower. She sighed and frowned. When she saw me, she said, "I am still that person. Why is it different when I get married?" Where did the old mango? I smiled and asked her, what did you say? What, this guy, that guy? 

She also smiled and said, that's the man! Before getting married, the man was not charming, but he was humorous and free. Before getting married, the man was not a gentleman, but he was kind to me. Before getting married, the man was not well-proportioned, but he was still in the eye. How did he change when he got married? He seemed to be a different person. Why did all these advantages of him go to Java as soon as he got married? The rest is full of shortcomings. It's not love, it's not hate, it's worrying! 

For the simplest example, within a few days after marriage, the family was in a mess, old newspapers were littered everywhere, clothes were hung everywhere, shoes and socks were flying around, and things were disorganized. The most maddening thing was that that person didn't love me as much as before. Once upon a time, I said I wanted to eat apples. In winter, he would run all over the street covering his down jacket, and buy me apples. Now I say I have a cold and have a headache. He holds the computer without turning his head. He says the medicine is in the drawer, so he can take it himself. The girl sighed and said, where did the former mango?  

I smiled, too, and said, that man is still in your home. What you saw before was the hardcover edition, but now what you see is the paperback edition. You used to stand in the clouds, but now you fall into your life from the clouds. It is impossible for the person who is groping with you in life to talk to you with a book in his arms every day, and it is even more impossible to talk to you with his head up every day when he is in love. If you are married and still stay in love, there are only two kinds of results, either you are sick or you are exhausted.  

How can it be the same before and after marriage? After marriage, we will not always be in a hormonal imbalance period. On ordinary and trivial days, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea are opposite day and night. How can there be no aesthetic fatigue? No matter how romantic or beautiful the day is, it will be overwhelmed by trivial life. Clever and wise people will turn a blind eye after marriage, turning a blind eye to see the advantages of the person around them, and closing one eye to shield the shortcomings of the person around them, which is conducive to the overall stability. Don't underestimate the wisdom of the masses, turn a blind eye, compared with the two people in marriage, it makes sense.  

If you always seize the shortcomings of your lover, how can you live that day?  

Disadvantages and advantages are the same, and everyone will have them. Not only does your lover have shortcomings, but when you see your lover's shortcomings, you see yourself. Your lover is a mirror. You can't ask others to have any shortcomings, but your shortcomings can be seen everywhere. After all, no one is perfect. Whoever says he has no shortcomings is a saint.

The best way is to learn to live with your lover's advantages, learn to seek happiness and warmth with your lover's advantages, and find more advantages in your lover. It is a kind of positive energy, which can conduct and influence each other, so that life will be happy, the family will be stable, and happy and stable life will be full of temperature, which is what we have been looking for all our lives.

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